Hat tip to Nate for instigating the idea of implementing some sort of first-gear lockout device! That's where this started, and could ultimately be where it goes. But, I want to start with a gated shifter. Partly because I've always thought they were cool, and wanted to do one, anyway. And partly because I wonder if it would make it more obvious when you're headed for 3rd vs 1st. If it does, then we're good. No further action required. If it's still easy to grab 1st rather than 3rd, then I can work on some sort of spring-loaded 1st gear lockout that would block that gate after you shift to 2nd.
First thing I noticed when I tried to mock this up is that if I simply remove the shift boot and put a gate plate on top of the shifter pedestal, the gates are too close! The shift lever is prety fat at 13mm, and center-to-center on each gate is about 15mm. So, 1-2mm max width for the "fingers" on the metal gate plate. Not gonna work!
Thinking on it further, if I were to raise the pedestal, obscuring more of the shift lever, the throws get wider up there. So, I started playing with that today. First 3/4", then an inch, and lastly 1.25". Mocked it up with some foam and cardboard.
This could work! Doesn't get in the way. (maybe the cupholders behind the shifter will be slightly harder to reach, but those cupholders aren't deep enough and drinks like to flop out of them, anyway!) And doesn't look too bad, if I build it in a relatively neat fashion.

