Lets say you're going from a stock suspension system to something more complex(due to being able to make adjustments), like a coilover. With that, you being able to adjust the ride heights. What would be a good indication on where the set the ride height. Reading many different things I'm seeing stuff about ride height affecting roll center. Having ride height set too low will cause the roll center to go underground(for my vehicle people measure the roll center by the control arms. If the control arms are almost parallel, then roll center will basically make body roll worse. So preferred control arm angle is to be at a somewhat very small angle like / \(not that drastic of an angle) instead of _ _ ( almost parallel). So when adjusting ride height, would it be best to lower it to the point before control arms becoming almost parallel? I know every car is different and each probably require there own fine tuning and adjustments. Is there usually a universal rule of thumb about ride height and what a good height they should be set at?
Then from ride height there becomes rake. My car usually comes with the rear lowered 20mm compared to the front. So the rake would be negative causing the car be at a slight angle from front being higher and back being lower. I'm assuming whatever your ride height is setup for the front and back will affect the rake? So you would just need to measure the front and rear and just verify the rear is a little lower than the front?
Lastly, dialing in rebound/compression. Obviously having them set at the softest setting would be pretty street friendly compared to having it set to the hardest setting. Now for the performance part. How do you find that sweet spot when adjusting them for OPTIMAL PERFORMANCE

If whatever I'm spewing out is incorrect, let me know. This crap is confusing and I'm trying to make sense of it.